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Sage Holly
Aug 3, 20246 min read
My Relationship Types
This post is personal for me as much as it is a resource for coaching. At this point in life, I’m available for a handful of different...
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Sage Holly
Jul 4, 20246 min read
Flirting Through the Chakras
This post is experimental for me. I came up with the concept, then realized it might be interesting to try to coauthor it with ChatGPT....
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Sage Holly
Feb 22, 20246 min read
Emotional “Strength Training”
Emotional resilience: we need it if we’re going to fully engage with life. In the wise words of Theodore Roosevelt, “Nothing in the world...
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Sage Holly
Feb 10, 20245 min read
Emotionally Balancing A New Relationship
What a thrilling experience, to feel the flood of emotions after a great first date! After we’ve just met someone we’re excited about, we...
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Sage Holly
Jan 20, 20246 min read
Distinguishing Eroticism, Sensuality, and Sexuality
In this post, I want to tease out the similarities and differences between the ideas of eroticism, sensuality, and sexuality. They often...
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Sage Holly
Dec 29, 20231 min read
[Erotica Narration] Sage's Fantasy
In Somatica training, we were instructed to write our own fantasy after exploring our core needs and desires. I got a little carried away...
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Sage Holly
Dec 29, 202310 min read
Is Consent *Actually* Sexy?
At this point in the nationwide conversation about consent, we’ve heard this a million times: “consent is sexy!” That’s a nice ideal to...
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Sage Holly
Nov 18, 20237 min read
Growing Up, I Was Bullied
This post is a personal share about some formative experiences I had growing up. My hope is that some people who read it will relate to...
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Sage Holly
Nov 16, 20238 min read
Trying to Show All of My Feelings
As I’ve described in other posts, one of the unhealthy relationship tendencies I learned as a kid was to hide my emotions if I imagined...
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Sage Holly
Oct 25, 20233 min read
Journey Into Rope Bondage
My first experience with rope bondage was getting tied by a rigger (someone who ties) at the Bonobo Network retreat, a weekend getaway...
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Sage Holly
Oct 20, 20231 min read
My Love Language - Heartfelt Questions
When people ask about my personal love language, I have a tough time answering with an answer that fits the conventional five categories....
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Sage Holly
Oct 20, 20233 min read
The Name "Sage"
No, that's not my legal name or my birth name, which is Ethan Holly. Sometimes, people ask "Is that your real name?" Presumptuous...
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Sage Holly
Oct 10, 20232 min read
Emotional Availability, huh?
"Emotional Availability": the term gets thrown around a lot, as a desire for what we long for in a romantic partner, in lament for what's...
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Sage Holly
Oct 5, 20232 min read
My Mission: Breaking Down The Barriers To Love
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." --Rumi...
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